Tuesday, February 22, 2022
Six years and it feels like not a single thing has changed...
I have this fantasy in my mind of who I want to be and what I want to do and I always keep thinking I just need something to get out of my way to let me do it. Let me have a few more hours in the day, let me have a little bit more money, let me have a little bit more cooperation from others, but in the end the only thing that keeps me from being the person I want to be and doing the things I want to do, the only thing that gets in my way is me.
I really don't want to be an accountant anymore, the disappointment of being forced to continue that for the time being is pretty grave and every day I get more and more frustrated that it takes my very limited energy away from the things I want to do, but when that is finally over and all my responsibilities at my j-o-b are passed on to other people, if it ends up that I don't figure out how to get out of my own way I will end up just sitting on the couch watching TV all day and resenting myself deep in my soul.
I think maybe I'm procrastinating finishing this bank reconciliation and the end of year close because once it's done I will be passing on my work to somebody else and I won't have any other excuses to do those things I keep saying I want to do.
Who am I really if I have no excuses left to hide behind?
I think I'm so stuck about doing glass research partly because the part of me that wants to do the work is battling the part of me that wants to do the least amount of work required to "pass the class". My anxiety might stem from not having a teacher around to ask, "What are the minimum requirements to write this research paper? How many sources do I need in the bibliography? How many pages? How many words? What font size? Or, also, with an entire internet's worth of resources, and not having anyone to tell me "5 sources, 10 pages, 10pt font" I end up with a pile of sources on my virtual desk about a mile high.
It's not exactly that I want to do the least amount of work possible, it's that I'm getting lost in not knowing how much work is required of my project, so how do I know how many sources to use in my research? How do I know when to stop looking and settle down and start writing things down? I guess what I need to remember are the lessons my college teachers tried to get through my thick head for so many years, which was that of "scope". It should be kind of like a scientist's hypothesis. What do I want to write about, answer, discuss, prove, explore, or teach about in my paper? What is my scope?
For my work in the SCA I want to learn how to make replicas of medieval glass beads, when and where they come from, what archaeological dig they were found in, what techniques were used to make the original beads and what techniques I used to make my replicas, and where the beads were made, who made them, why they were made, how they were made, who used them, where they were used, how far from their origin they were taken, how they got there, where the glass came from, how was the glass made, and what were the sources of the particular ingredients of the glass.
See, that's not so much to research, is it?
The long, slow slog through medieval lampworking research...
Sunday, December 6, 2015
Forgive me Blogger, it's been 659 days since my last post...
Wednesday, February 5, 2014
I did NOT understand the connection between Google+ and Blogger...
Edited to add: Looks like the only picture I actually deleted then emptied from my trash is the image of the centipede. No one wants to look at a yucky 5 inch long centipede anyway, so maybe this is all for the good. I managed to restore the rest of the pictures, so YAY! :)
Friday, December 20, 2013
Getting up before the sun...
Wednesday, December 18, 2013
Shedding the past...
Up until I found glass, I practiced every hobby I could get my hands on. It started when I was a teen and discovered building dollhouses. You need to be able to do many different things, learn many different skills, if you want to build and decorate a dollhouse from scratch. So for years I did a little woodworking, a little wallpapering, a little kit bashing, a little quilting, a little cross-stitch, a little sewing, a little pottery, a little clay sculpture, a little whittling, a little crochet, and a bunch of other little stuff. (Yes, pun intended. :) And then I joined the SCA, and being enamored with hobbies already, I learned how to knit, weave, spin wool, bake, dye fabric, leather work, more woodworking and sewing, book binding, cord making, outdoor cooking, and many other things, including mixing drinks. And, all that time, every time I wanted to learn something new, I bought all the supplies, so I ended up with mountains of craft supplies.
My husband and I like to say that our main hobby is collecting hobbies.
When I found glass, it felt as if all my life I had been looking for "the perfect hobby" and suddenly all the other hobbies lost their appeal. I never even look at my spinning wheel anymore, and that was the front-runner for quite a few years. Now I have all these supplies that I feel I couldn't care less about, and am getting very frustrated that all this junk is taking up space, space that I could be using to store glass and lampworking supplies!
But seriously, I'm ready to shed the many layered, dead skins of my past hobbies, but my husband (who has NOT found his passion yet) isn't ready. I feel for him, really I do, so I try not to make a big deal out of it. I just wish we had a Bag of Holding we could store all that paraphernalia in so it would leave more room for moving around the apartment. And for glass storage.